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How To Use A Prostate Massager

How to use a Prostate Massager

If you are new to anal sex and are wondering just what all the talk is about – this introduction and guide into using a prostate massager will hopefully quash any bad thoughts or ideas that you might have.

Let’s make a start and learn just how to use a prostate massager.

Prostate massagers amongst men are proving highly popular and this new form of orgasm is going down very well with men of all ages and all denominations.

So, let’s dive in and discover just how easy it is to use your new device, and just how much pleasure you will receive from it.

But just before we go into the actual do’s and don’ts, we need to understand exactly what this massager will do for you and how to choose well.

Stimulating your prostate

As you may have guessed, the idea is all about stimulation. So, what are we trying to actually achieve? We are trying to get our prostate going in such a way that will lead to some super orgasms or sexual feeling.

Stimulating your prostate, or ‘P Spot’ can lead to intense, and sometimes even multiple orgasms, the problem being though that manual manipulation of the manhole can be a little tricky.

This is where using the prostate massager comes in play as using a prostate massager can help you discover a whole new realm of sexual fulfilment – comfortably!

Does the size that we choose matter
Prostate massagers come in a whole range of different shapes and sizes, and are all designed to provide a contoured, comfortable fit. Initially, you may want to buy one of the simpler massagers – this is probably a good idea being a beginner in prostate massage. Remember you can always upgrade to a fancier toy later on.

For your first foray into anal play we would recommend that you purchase one of the larger looking ones; the slimmer massagers may look less intimidating but in actual fact, the tip, or ‘head’ of your first massager should have a larger surface area to help you find your prostate. So, for that first one – size does matter!

Let’s not forget about lubrication
You should also get some lubricant, and an antibacterial cleanser, or cleansing wipes, to keep your toy hygienic and ready for use. Keeping healthy and staying clean are big things to bear in mind when experimenting with any form of anal sex.

Using your new massager

Play time:

Make sure you have time to play and experiment; finding your prostrate should be easy enough, but learning what works best for you and learning just how to use a prostate massager, may take time.

The idea here is not to rush. Learn how to hold your new device, learn how to inset your new device and most of all be comfortable with your new device.


Now you’ve earmarked some alone time, unwind.

Relaxation is the key to getting the most out of your experience; especially if this is your first time indulging in anal play.

Make yourself comfortable, and find the position that will work best for you – either laying on your side with your knees drawn up to your chest, or laying on your back with your legs raised should work well.

Lube up:

We have spoken about this before, but we will mention again.

Apply lube to your massager and to yourself.

Don’t skimp! Too much lube is no bad thing.

You can buy lubricant specially formulated for anal play, ensuring that you get the best out of your experience without leaving you in any discomfort.

Get stuck in:

OK, so now would be a good time to get stuck in.

Insert your massager into your anus, with the curved end curving towards your stomach.

If you are finding insertion difficult or uncomfortable it is probably because your sphincter is tensed – relax!

Try deep, meditative breathing, or perhaps divert yourself with a bit of good old-fashioned masturbation – and take as long as it takes.

You are aiming for a spot about one and a half to two inches from the anus; stay relaxed and you will know when you’ve hit the right spot. Then of course it’s a matter of experimentation, if you are using a manual massager rub it backwards and forwards over your prostate gland, wriggle it, twist it slightly; find the motion and pressure is needed to get you going. If you’re using a vibrating massager try different settings.

Hopefully by this point you are thoroughly enjoying yourself! You can add to your fun with some penile stimulation but don’t get carried away – remember the idea is to bring yourself to a different, more intense climax through prostate stimulation.

If you want to prolong your experience take a break by really reducing the pressure.

How to use a prostate massager – onwards and upwards!

As a new convert to anal play you may soon discover through experimentation that you can make your intense orgasms last even longer, with greater control of your sphincter, you may even experience multiple orgasms.

Different massagers may help you in your quest to become master of the O: the slimmer prostate massagers with smaller tips are designed to really hit that spot with intense pressure, and of course the vibrating massagers come in a whole variety of speeds and settings, controlled manually or by remote.

Whether you use a slick silent number, or seek assistance from a buzzy showy one, there is no reason why you shouldn’t be able to give you mind-blowing uber orgasms – practice makes perfect!

So hopefully you can now see that learning just how to use a prostate massager is not as hard of you might have first thought!  Just remember and practise all of the above you will become an anal master.