How To Use A Dildo

How To Use A Dildo

Dildos Have Been Called The Ultimate DIY Sex Toy

There are many women still under the popular misconception that a dildo and a vibrator are one and the same, so let’s clear this up before we proceed.

A vibrator is battery operated and moves of its own accord, a dildo does not.

In short, you have to manually manipulate a dildo to achieve sexual satisfaction and not rely on a series of speed and vibration patterns to do it for you.

A Look At A Dildo 

Dildos come in all manner of wonderful shapes and often eye popping sizes.

A quick look at Google images will show you exactly what unorthodox models of dildo are available on the market, and it’s entirely up to you how you manoeuvre it to reach orgasm.

While it can be tempting to buy the strangest one you can find for its novelty value you are best off starting with a plain and simple model as the manual manipulation of a dildo can get longer to get used to than the automation of a vibrator.

But Again We Ask The Question – Just How To Use A Dildo?

Well as they never come with instructions, we have decided to created some for you – 

• Make sure you apply plenty of lube to your dildo. Water based suits all but never use silicone lube if you have a silicone dildo.

• Get into a comfortable position while having your legs positioned to enable the easiest access to your vagina.

• Taking a firm grip of the dildo, edge it into your vagina slowly and gently. Try and relax as if you tense up it will make entry difficult and uncomfortable.

• You don’t have to get it right in there at the first time of asking. If you are happy with just a couple of inches the first time that’s fine. The more you practice the easier it will get until you have the full length inside you.

• Once the dildo is in place in your vaginal canal stop for a moment and let your body adjust to this new invader. Once you are happy, and it feels both comfortable and pleasurable, you can start moving it around a bit.

Are You Traditional?

Whether you use the traditional thrusting action of intercourse or prefer to jiggle it a bit or even rotate it is entirely up to you.

By experimenting with all of the above you will soon discover what is most pleasurable for you.

There are no rules regarding a dildo and which actions bring the greatest pleasure.

Every woman is different so never think you aren’t doing it right just because you get your kicks from a motion some may consider unusual.

It’s All About Perfection

Once you have perfected your technique you are ready to explore the wonderful world of the dildo.

Even today, when vibrators do everything but sing, dance and bring you a cup of coffee in the morning, dildos are still extremely popular.

Women feel empowered that they are in control of their masturbation and not relying on a battery to release their orgasm.

For a longer and slower journey to climactic ecstasy you simply cannot beat a dildo.

Hopefully you will have gained enough knowledge from this article on exactly how to use a dildo?

The next part of the exercise will be to actually go out and purchase one!

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