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My mom caught me masturbating

My Mom Caught Me Masturbating!

Let’s face it – masturbating is something that most humans do and self gratification can be fun, sexy, and a healthy part of your sex life. But there are certain problems that might arise – like living at home with no real privacy. If you do still live at home it can be difficult to find time to masturbate. Sometimes you might find yourself on your own and with a little bit of privacy and things might just start to happen.

my mom caught me masturbatingRelaxing for some self-love is great…until your mom walks in that is!

Being caught while masturbating is common, so common that there are hundreds of videos and erotic stories devoted just to this. The usual fantasy is that a man or woman are caught masturbating by a sexy lover.

Now getting caught by your mother is another matter entirely and all sexual fantasies kind of wither away. I mean who wants their mom to see them in the throes of an orgasm? No one!

My Mom Caught Me Masturbating!

But What Have I Done Wrong?

But let us just dispel a myth here! First off there is nothing wrong with masturbating. Just like we have already mentioned, male or female, masturbation is normal and healthy. People that masturbate are more likely to know how to get themselves off and how to enjoy sex with their partner. You will also probably agree that more people do it than will admit to it. In fact, in some countries teenagers are encouraged to masturbate daily for mental and physical health! (You might mention that to mom when she starts having a go at you).

Just Relax

So while it is uncomfortable being caught by your mother, it isn’t the end of the world. You won’t want to think about this, but mom probably does it more than you do. Wow was that a bit of a bullet! Well it’s the truth! Women are more likely to touch themselves and bring themselves to orgasm as they get older. This is because of a higher sex drive and intensified orgasms in women aged between 30 to 50.

Now depending on your family situation, your mother probably wouldn’t mention this little gem. Most mothers will pretend it never happened and respond by knocking politely before entering your room from now on. This should be the default of any parent – an apology for infringing on your privacy and then respecting that privacy after. Sadly many parents forget that their children are humans with privacy needs.

How should you react to all of this and how should you prevent any embarrassment?

Well you could start by asking for a lock to be placed on your room door. Or maybe you will get into the habit of masturbating only when no one is home, or while bathing. So as long as you weren’t getting off in the living room in front of the entire family, there really is no reason to be ashamed.

I Love It!

Self-love isn’t a crime, a sin, or self-pollution. Too many people over the decades have demonized masturbation. Up until the 18th Century, masturbation was a common theme in some art and literature, most notably Roman. A pamphlet was published by an anonymous source (Onania) which talked of the evils of self-love. For centuries after, people saw masturbating as bad, evil, or a sign of mental illness.

Today we know that masturbation is perfectly normal and healthy. Some people still hold the old, outdated view of touching yourself as being bad. If your mom is one of those people, you may wish to share a link in an anonymous email to articles concerning the health benefits of masturbation and other related articles.

All Explained?

Now hopefully, you’ll be able to recover from the embarrassment that nearly all of us would feel if caught by our mom. It can be really difficult to not feel some sort of weirdness, after all it is your mom that just saw you getting off! Not many people can just shrug it off without an iota of squeamishness. Just take a deep breath and try to calm your inner freak out. Ask for privacy if your mother brings it up or talk to a counsellor at school if you continue to have feelings of shame.

And please remember – there is no shame in masturbation.

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