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BDSM sex toys and bondage ideas

BDSM sex toys and bondage ideas

The book, Fifty Shades of Grey, has taken the publishing world by storm and no one expected for women to fall in love with the story as much as they did. What has transpired is that with the birth of the novel and the movie, came the birth of fifty shades of grey sex toys, a true pathway to naughty pleasures and desires.

Portrait of blonde woman in BDSM neck collarUsing these toys allows couples to role play the plot or create their own steamy situations. This line of sex toys, allows both men and women to push their excitement to new levels for an unforgettable experience in the world of bondage and BDSM. And by venturing into the world of bondage play, sexual limits can be measured and broken.

Let’s look at some ideas regarding bondage and the 50 Shades of Grey Sex Toys.

Using soft restraints

If you are totally new to this, why not start off with what we call ‘soft’ limit items, which are satin restraints or soft paddles. A bit of light spanking can bring an interesting, sensual element to intimate moments. Satin restraints are usually made from a length of soft, smooth fabric that is strong enough to keep a lover bound yet gentle on the skin.

 

 

 

Using Paddles

Paddles can be hard or have a cushioned surface, and most couples that are just starting out with bondage play use cushioned paddles. At the same time soft masks can be used to cover the eyes and comes in the shape of a sleep mask with an elastic band.

It’s all about trust

If we move forward into the more serious play of domination and submission, trust and willingness play a big part in the first stages of bondage and submission play. If a partner isn’t trustworthy, he or she should not be trusted to wield power over you. Beyond choosing toys, such as stronger restraints, the couple should also choose a safe word. This lets the dominating partner or Dom know that the submissive or sub has reached a limit they will not or do not want to cross.

There are so many ways that sex toys can be incorporated into a D/s relationship. Examples of which are massagers, vibrators, dildos, and anal beads. These can all be used to either tease or torture. Let’s also remember that there are different levels of torture and the word ‘sweet torture’ refers to a type of sexual play. BDSM or D/s play is meant to draw out the pleasure of the sub which in turn gives the Dom pleasure. This type of sex play is never meant to inflict serious damage upon the sub.

bdsm-and-bondage-ideas1Is there more to bondage than simply tying up a lover?

Sensual torture can bring something new to the experience of bondage. Depriving a lover of their sight increases the sensations they feel. Items such as feather tickler or soft whips can all bring a new meaning to the word “deprive”. Nipple clamps are another perfect bondage toy which is great for both sexes.

 

 

Used to heighten the sensations felt in the nipples before, during, and after sex play, nipple clamps can bring a feeling of total dominance to your partner.

So as I am sure you can now see, enjoyment in BDSM comes from being prepared, safe, and with a mutual trust in the bedroom. If you have never tried bondage before, now would be a good time to start, with an array of bondage toys at your fingertips.

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